Things that would make you bad in bed

All the lies being told in movies gives people false impression about lovemaking, In most people’s perspective, when you make love with your friend finder, your sweat would shine like diamonds and there wouldn’t be any sweaty smell. You would say something dirty and sexy instead of “F*ck, you stepped on my hair” or “Sorry, I have a spasm”, etc. When you switch positions, your head wouldn’t accidentally hit on the bed and you wouldn’t accidentally knock over a glass of water put on your bedside table. They would know exactly the preference of each other and how to arouse each other perfectly on hook up apps.

When it comes to a sexual expert, we would usually think of a devil filled with desire. They have all the secret to pleasure in their hands when they want to find friends. They are amazing sexual partners. It is possible to make love with strangers and it is also possible to have a great time with them. The person you are making love with have no idea about what you have been through. From their eyes, you are just a person who want the same thing as they do, which can make you more relaxed and even maybe, you are that person who would nail it. Who knows, you might be that sexual expert.

However, there are certainly things that would mark you as a bad sexual partner. You might want to stay away from these red flags if you want to be a good sexual partner.

You are judging your partner
I will tell you a secret. If you are making love with someone whom you can judge, then you are with the wrong person. You are hurting them and yourselves. This could be a symbol that you are not good at lovemaking.

You are not listening to your partner
I am not just talking about listening to what they have to say. I am also suggesting that you should listen to their tone and body language. Trying new things is daring and exciting. However, forcing your partner to try things they don’t want to can be damaging. For example, if you want to try anal sexual activities while your partner doesn’t want to. You cannot ignore them and you cannot beg them like a puppy “Oh, please, please, please. It will be great. You will definitely like it.”

If your partner likes you, they might give in while they are still not ready for it, but it won’t be a very good experience. If you don’t listen to them and push forward step by step, you will end up hurting everyone. Having one night hookup with strangers should be like having a dialogue. You are creating a certain experience with someone you don’t know. Instead of ignoring them, you should take care of them and see of they are having a good time with you. If you don’t listen to your partner and do what you like, you are definitely terrible at sexual activities.